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If someone described a drunken night with uou

17 replies

Scilfulled · 07/05/2017 23:38

As "cathartic" - how would you take it?

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ashtrayheart · 07/05/2017 23:40

A compliment possibly?! Depends on context...

PeaFaceMcgee · 07/05/2017 23:40

I'd take it to mean they had a great time and much needed letting-go.

ladymariner · 07/05/2017 23:41

Do you mean a drunken night being raucous in the pub, or a drunken night involving shagging??

Scilfulled · 07/05/2017 23:41

Being raucous in the pub!

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MommaGee · 07/05/2017 23:43

Compliment. They really let loose and it did them good. Can I come to the pub with you?

ladymariner · 07/05/2017 23:53

Yeah, you're obviously a good night out Grin you've done them a world of good! Can I come next time, could do with letting my hair down!!

Longdistance · 07/05/2017 23:56

Ooo, you sound fun.

Can I come next time?

ScarlettFreestone · 07/05/2017 23:57

It means that they felt better after it, that it cheered them up.

It's a compliment.

BitOutOfPractice · 07/05/2017 23:59

Cathartic is usually good isn't it?

RedBullBlood · 08/05/2017 00:01

They had a smashing time and had a laugh
or
they got maudlin and miserable, unloaded all their woes onto you and you sat there and listened.
Hopefully the former.

VimFuego101 · 08/05/2017 00:03

At first I thought you meant sex 😂 if it was a night at the pub I'd say it was a compliment.

Scilfulled · 08/05/2017 00:04

Ok well it was a bit of a weird one, they're a friend of my dad going through a tough time. They were telling me a bit about their problems, I listened then got them absolutely smashed and I guess made them remember their youth?! Blush It was a weird one and I think they're quite embarrassed but this was the feedback

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Scilfulled · 08/05/2017 00:05

There was laughter if I remember correctly!!

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ExplodedCloud · 08/05/2017 00:11

That sounds like they feel it was good. They talked about stuff, worked it through a bit and had a good time.

crispandcheesesandwichplease · 08/05/2017 00:13

To me it would mean they'd had a good time and a good chat that was helpful for them. Cathartic is good, means you helped them sort things out a bit.

Scilfulled · 08/05/2017 11:52

Ok thanks! A relief Smile

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welovepancakes · 08/05/2017 11:54

Sounds like "I needed to let my hair down, it was good to remember I was young once".

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