To be fair, I'm only on episode 3, but if Toby's behaviour so far is meant to be romantic, I really doubt it's going to get any better (and I'm guessing it's going to get a lot worse). He's controlling. He's creepy. He doesn't listen to Kate and performs all these grand, creepy gestures. He says he and Kate should be as close as she is to her twin brother (after like three dates!). There were so many red flags I could barely stand to watch, but when Kate told her brother how creepy Toby was, he unilaterally decided she couldn't move to New York with him so she could apologize to Creepster McCreepy. Wtf??
Everyone else I've talked to about this thinks I'm nuts. "Noooo, Toby's the boyfriend everyone dreams of!" What? No. Toby is the boyfriend who gets dumped when he proposes on the second date.
AIBU? Please someone tell me they agree with me!