Dh playing sport all day with D's. My DM been unwell for days, taken to hospital this am after ringing 999. Bro n sis there, she's now having emergency surgery. I Last text dh about 4 pm saying she had x condition, due to have surgery today. Obv didn't go in to all the details via text but he could tell it was pretty big deal I'm sure - I mentioned having to possibiy travel up today.
Sport finished at 7. Ds was just dropped at end of drive now by dh and dh is apparently going for a pint before coming home. No contact from him at all to check how DM is or how I am coping with all this.
Aibu to think he should have at least called in for an update and a hug or dare I say it, not have gone for a drink???? I know I could have text him with all the details but really, should I have to??