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AIBU?

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To expect him to check on me?

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tactum · 16/04/2017 19:58

Dh playing sport all day with D's. My DM been unwell for days, taken to hospital this am after ringing 999. Bro n sis there, she's now having emergency surgery. I Last text dh about 4 pm saying she had x condition, due to have surgery today. Obv didn't go in to all the details via text but he could tell it was pretty big deal I'm sure - I mentioned having to possibiy travel up today.

Sport finished at 7. Ds was just dropped at end of drive now by dh and dh is apparently going for a pint before coming home. No contact from him at all to check how DM is or how I am coping with all this.

Aibu to think he should have at least called in for an update and a hug or dare I say it, not have gone for a drink???? I know I could have text him with all the details but really, should I have to??

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BarneyRumbleton · 16/04/2017 19:59

Has he definitely seen your text?

tactum · 16/04/2017 20:01

Yes he replied to it v specifically

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HecateAntaia · 16/04/2017 20:05

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MrsHenryWales · 16/04/2017 20:06

He's a numpty.

SorryForCallingYourMumACunt · 16/04/2017 20:07

He has basically seen it as a tidy option to go for a pint.

I'd want support (in text at the very least) in some way.

YADNBU.

tactum · 16/04/2017 20:07

Thank you. I think his stock response would be seeing as I hadn't the t him further he didn't think anything had changed or he was needed.

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Allthewaves · 16/04/2017 20:10

Just give him a ring and tell him to come home

HecateAntaia · 16/04/2017 20:12

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twattymctwatterson · 16/04/2017 20:12

Is he normally so unsupportive?

tactum · 16/04/2017 20:20

Pretty much

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twattymctwatterson · 16/04/2017 20:42

I'd be very hurt by this and if it's a regular occurrence it would make me question my life with this man

tactum · 16/04/2017 20:44

He's back home now and knows he's fucked up. Im upstairs having told him not to touch me. Our day to day life is fine but I guess in a crisis you see things clearly

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