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To ask how people go about their food intake?

41 replies

Zhan · 03/04/2017 21:53

Do you simply eat what you want, when you want?

Do you count calories?

Do you follow a specific diet?

Do you make sure you burn more than you eat?

And ultimately, are you under or overweight or a healthy weight?

I ask as I've given up with all diets and now simply eat what I want whilst trying to burn off more than I eat. I'm a healthy weight (but flabbier than I'd like to be).

Reason I'm asking is ive noticed that most people who are a healthy weight simply eat what they want with no obvious restrictions whilst those who are trying to follow specific rules, are overweight (and continue to be so despite the dieting).

I've noticed myself that when I put myself on a diet, I gain weight. I just can't understand how.

So AIBU to ask how you all manage your food intakes?! Is dieting really worth the stress?!

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QueenMortificado · 03/04/2017 21:56

I found that dieting was awful for me because I'd drastically cut calories and exercise on cardio loads. I lost weight and when I had a body scan it was all muscle I'd lost

The key for me was weights and upping my protein intake. I've kept all the muscle and only lost fat.

Now if I hear people talking about juice diets / losing weight because they've been ill I can only think how it's water weight or muscle they'll be losing

DangerDays · 03/04/2017 21:58

I used to be overweight. I ate as much as I wanted, whenever I wanted, whatever I wanted. There was no structure and some days I ate an entire family size pizza for dinner after a massive lunch and cooked breakfast.

I am now quite thin, around a size 8. I still eat what I enjoy eating, but I use the MyFitnessPal app to work out how big my portions should be, and try to stick to a set calorie allowance. On days when I go to the gym, I eat a lot more, but I don't ever let myself go hungry - if I want a big meal, I'll just include lots of lower calorie options, like veg, to help fill me up.

Writerwannabe83 · 03/04/2017 21:58

I eat what I want, when I want and am lucky enough to stay at about 9st.

I'm on medication though for a chronic condition and the drug has previously been trialled as a weight loss drug and I'm on a considerably higher dose than the dose that can cause weight loss so I think that's why I don't have to worry about my weight. The drug must have an effect on the metabolism or something.

TotalPineapple · 03/04/2017 21:58

I'm a healthy weight. I eat what I want and usually am probably slightly under averagely active (I'm getting away with being quite sedentary at the moment as I'm breastfeeding). I might occasionally make an effort to eat less crap for a bit but I don't calorie count or anything.

Every time I've actively tried any sort of 'diet' (I could be slimmer and still a healthy weight iyswim) I've thought more about food than normal, felt hungrier because of it, and fallen off the wagon quite quickly.

PurpleDaisies · 03/04/2017 21:59

Exactly the same as queen. Lifting weights (don't worry about getting really muscly-you'll just look toned) and eating meals based around protein and veg with sensible carbs (my downfall).

I only really measure pasta or rice portions now.

Lovelilies · 03/04/2017 22:01

I'm underweight. 7st 13 and 5'6.
I eat what I want when I want. I also smoke which does affect the appetite.

shaggedthruahedgebackwards · 03/04/2017 22:04

I eat 2 meals a day and pretty much never miss a meal ....I actually struggle with things like brunch & afternoon tea because they don't fit into my normal routine!

I have toast or cereal every morning,
Sandwich or wrap for lunch (or maybe soup or a salad on a non work day), normal evening meal plus occasional but not excessive snacks

My weight has stayed pretty much the same give or take a few pounds for past decade. I am a healthy normal weight (BMI 22-23)

shaggedthruahedgebackwards · 03/04/2017 22:04

That should say 3 meals a day!

Zhan · 03/04/2017 22:05

See I used to smoke and that was a massive help in keeping my weight down. Can't really justify taking it back up again just to lose weight though 😂

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LadyLoveYourWhat · 03/04/2017 22:11

I use MyFitnessPal too, I used to eat whatever, but I steadily gained weight. I lost weight by calorie counting (cutting down on snacks and eating smaller portions) and being a bit more active. Now I'm maintaining I do still log, but generally what it boils down to is knowing to put less on my plate! I think I did and still do eat a fairly balanced diet (I'm not one for fad diets or cutting out food groups), but I do love my food (and I'm a keen cook). I run a fair bit now which affords me treats and wine...

Maxwellthecat · 03/04/2017 22:15

I'm 5"2 and 8 stone and have been pretty much my entire adult life.
I eat what I want when I want but I'm lucky to prefer savoury food and I eat mostly vegetables and pulses. I run 3 times a week and do yoga every day too. I treat myself when I want, in fact I've just finished an Oreo brownie.

phoenixtherabbit · 03/04/2017 22:15

Wat what I want mainly, but do calorie count. So if I want chocolate I'll have it, but a small bar rather than a massive one. Don't deny myself anything. If I really want something that will take me over my calories, I'll still have it but it's rare I do this anyway.

I do some walking but no strenuous exercise really.

I'm a healthy weight, probably happier with it than I have ever been and have lost 1 & 1/2 stone counting calories - I had baby weight and a little from before the baby to lose

Therealslimshady1 · 03/04/2017 22:16

Hmmm, I sort of eat what I like

I had quite a big dinner (roast pots, fish, veggies,) so even though I quite fancy a magnum, I won't

I've sort of trained myself not to eat biscuits or puddings, other than that I do eat pretty much what I like!

(Bmi 23)

Silverdream · 03/04/2017 22:20

I'd like to loose 1/2 a stone , I'm 5ft 6 and 11st. I kind of eat what I want but then when I have had something naughty - lunch out ,take away I don't eat anything else naughty in that day. I don't eat snacks but being busy stops that rather than will power.

Screwinthetuna · 03/04/2017 22:20

I eat what I want and don't skip meals and I'm 124lbs and slim.
Honestly, when I try and cut out the crap to eat healthier, I end up obsessing about food and then just eating more crap than I usually would!
Best way to be (for me) is to not restrict myself and I then don't see 'treats' as a treat

Lweji · 03/04/2017 22:22

I've always been underweight (now on the low side of healthy) and I've only eaten what I like. But I get full easily.

loveliesbleeding1 · 03/04/2017 22:24

I'm 5'6 a healthy weight with healthy body fat and I count calories (using mfp) and low carb.I also cycle nearly every day and walk almost everywhere.

MaidOfStars · 03/04/2017 22:28

BMI around 18.8-19.

I use MFP to track my food. I lift weights and do a shedload of cardio, so I need to check I'm meeting my nutritional goals (particularly protein intake).

I eat relatively few 'obvious' carbs, loads of protein and healthy fats.

Notcontent · 03/04/2017 22:28

I think it's difficult to compare because some people have bigger appetites/are more prone to putting on weight and therefore need to be more careful - ie can't just eat what they want,

I am very slim and don't diet, but i generally much prefer food that is pretty healthy - e.g. I don't really like chips, etc. My only potential downfall is chocolate and cakes - so I try not to have too many of those - not so much because of potential weight gain, but because of the sugar.

RedBugMug · 03/04/2017 22:31

I don't diet.
I eat what I want and stop eating when I am not hungry anymore. I don't eat until I'm full.

like that clever person said: eat food, not too much, mostly plants.

Mari50 · 03/04/2017 22:36

I'm 5'4 and weigh 9 stone (half a stone heavier than I'd like) I don't eat what I want, I make healthier choices when eating, I don't eat takeaway ever, when I'm out for dinner I choose fish (not battered with chips), etc etc. I'm half a stone overweight though because I have some boredom issues at home and will sit with and eat half a box of cereal while watching TV. Before my DD I had amazing willpower, nine months of eating chocolate cause I could drink wine ruined me.

Mari50 · 03/04/2017 22:37

Couldn't!! Bloody hell!!

specialsubject · 03/04/2017 22:47

Sort of what I want but within reason, but eating the whole pack of biscuits has never appealed.

Probably also helps that I don't like alcohol.

SomewhatIdiosyncratic · 03/04/2017 22:54

5ft 2 and loiter between 8.5 to 9 st, so middle of healthy BMI.

I mostly eat what I like in sensible portions. I try to think about the nutritional content of food and reduce high calorie, low nutrition options. I try to avoid drinking many calories too. I stop eating when I'm full even if there's two or three mouthfuls left which can attract comments. It's not a diet to write blogs about, but is fairly balanced and varied. It is sustainable which is the main thing, and I enjoy food.

If I have to rein it in, I'll use MFP to refocus, but I've never "been on a diet". I have a ceiling where I'll take action where it's a few pounds back to my happy zone and have lost two rounds of baby weight. I become more mindful about my choices, and particular about treats rather than a significant overhaul and forbidding foods.

I buy myself more flexibility in what I can eat with exercise.

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