To feel pushed out and a bit pathetic

[Wendalicious]

I may be being unreasonable but this morning my husband and I made lose plans to have a night in tonight as not seen each other much this week with parents evening and other not that fun stuff!

Busy day of work and the kids etc and at 7:15 he says his mate is coming over in 5 mins! I take the kids up to bed to be helpful and then hear mate walk in with case of beer and now they are ordering a pizza and watching a film I've been on about all week! They are quite "blokey" together and don't really include me in the chatter so now I'm sat upstairs sulking!

Husband came and asked me why I'm being grumpy and I'm not sure why I can't express my feelings eloquently- So AIBU to be a bit annoyed about this? He will not have thought at all about this, thank you x

YANBU but you need to tell him. 'I'm a bit disappointed I didn't get you all to myself this evening'. Make plans for another evening.

YAB a bit U. Assuming they invited you to join in with the film and the pizza order. If not then YANBU.

Just say, "Yes, you wanker! It was supposed to be our night, not a night for you and your bloody mate! Now get rid of him or accept you've had your last shag ever!"

Thank you, they said film going on now but as putting kids to bed who were mucking about, it was half way through 😬

We've been rowing quite a lot lately so I felt we needed it (shag included!)