I've just had major surgery 4 days ago got home yesterday which was great o could go to bed and relax and start my recovery but oh no dp decides to drive 500 mile round trip to collect dd from my family instead of leaving her til Saturday my dd is special needs so needs a lot of care then he bogs off out the house all day comes home and expects me to start cooking as he doesn't have time as he needs to wash the car!!! I mean really!!! I'm seriously pissed and in agony aibu to tell him to go fuck himself?