Okay. So. I am in the middle of working 8 days in a row. Some 11 hour days, some 6 hour days, this morning I was looking forward to a lie in and resting my foot as it feels as though ive sprained it ( my work involvesstanding for hours on concrete).
Dh gets up and announces he's going to clear the kitchen cupboards out.
Tbh I'm confused as the living room and bedroom are bomb sites so this would be pretty far down my list of priorities but whatever!
He then comes back upstairs and says
"Theres a pile of stuff on the kitchen side, have a look and see what youwant to keep"
I go downstairs and see the contents of the cupboards out on the sides (why do a job then ask me to do the whole job?!?!) Along with my hello kitty plates and mugs and things i got as gifts. I roll my eyes.
He says "I'll put it all in the bin then shall I?" So I get to sorting, annoyed he's put my things in the "bin" pile (as the things he wanted to keep like his mugs and plates and food in cupboard)
Basically I told him it was disrespectful and I was annoyed.
He's adamant he wouldn't have put it in the bin without my permission (despite the day before asking me if I wanted to keep something, me saying yes and him putting it in the bin anyway,soyes forgive me I did think he would have put it in the bin if I had stayed in bed and said bugger off i dont want to sort the cupboards)
So I've sat on this all day at work and come home and spoken to him about it and he honestly does not see what he did wrong, he said he did me a favour and if I had done that to him he would have been thrilled.
Who is being unreasonable here???