to be expected to feed my child

[codswallop]

all day on he winges

Put some snacks at child height in the fridge. Works for me.

Give them some beer, that fills them and keeps away the hunger pangs.

ta

just give him a takeaway menu and the phone
god kids nowadays can't do anything for themselves

try tamarzipan (tamazipan mixed with marzipan) its food and it keeps them quiet.

Potatoes, that is the answer. (According to my MIL)