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To think he's never going to text back?

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PixiePlunge · 28/02/2017 17:37

OLD unfortunately.

Been talking to a guy for 2 months. I finally asked him to meet up next month. That was 2 weeks ago.

We text every single day, quite a few times and now nothing for 2 days. It's odd behaviour from him.

He's read my message and from the joys of whatsapp I can see he's been online multiple times since then.

Just feel shit Sad

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andontothenext · 28/02/2017 17:44

Pah he's an ARSEHOLE

Block him and be done with it

andontothenext · 28/02/2017 17:44

Ps....take my username as inspiration Grin

WhooooAmI24601 · 28/02/2017 17:45

He's a dick. You've been saved from potentially having to spend time and energy meeting him and then discovering his dick ways after you've wasted your fancy eyeliner on him. Life's way of protecting you. It feels shit now but far better than happening later.

Also, when he does eventually instigate contact again, be sure to tell him about the wonderful sexual adventures you're having with a man you met OLD shortly after he began ignoring you.

Trifleorbust · 28/02/2017 17:45

Don't waste your time on someone who chooses not to respond to you for 2 days.

pinkblink · 28/02/2017 17:45

How rude & inconsiderate, do you want a reply from a man like that? Hope you find the perfect one next Smile

TalkingofMichaelAngel0 · 28/02/2017 17:48

Block him. Some just enjoy the chat and dont want to meet possibly married

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PixiePlunge · 28/02/2017 17:49

He's been lovely so far and I genuinely liked him and was looking forward to seeing him.

Takes a minute to text back. Sad

Thank you x

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Lovemusic33 · 28/02/2017 17:52

Sounds like he was using you as a pen pal and probably planned on never meeting up. Either that or he has met someone else, both very common with old Sad, been there many times, it's the part of online dating that I hate.

angelcakerocks · 28/02/2017 18:11

Don't chat that long/invest too much before meeting with the next one. Sorry to say, but a lot of these people are married/in relationships anyway

CaoNiMa · 28/02/2017 18:13

Onward and upward. Forget about his sorry arse.

KickingKat · 28/02/2017 18:15

No reply is a reply as they say. I know it's shit but at least he's shown his hand early doors.

I'm guessing married or catfish

Original poster
PixiePlunge · 28/02/2017 18:21

He's not married. I was curious and looked up his Facebook using his mobile number (never gave me his last name) and there's no wife.

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Foslady · 28/02/2017 18:25

I'm on a break from OLD - this happens too many times and was giving me a skewed view on men

TheNaze73 · 28/02/2017 18:55

I think the lesson here, is not to waste time with long hours of texting. People are so different when you're texting them & frankly it's a bit boring for most. If they're genuine, they'll meet want to meet. Some serial testers just want their ego's stroking

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