So I had a clear out over the weekend and will be doing a car boot in May. I thought I could get rid of a few of the larger/more valuable items on Gumtree.
I'm selling a ring and earrings and have had some interest. This is a site where usually someone will collect the items avoiding postage but I have agreed to post these items as they are small, under £20, buyer pays and I can get these covered without insurance by using the free proof of postage protection. I do not use Paypal outside of eBay (and won't as at least one person had tried to scam me by using this via Gumtree - thankfully saw through it). I explained this to buyer and they confirmed they would send a cheque. That was Friday. Today they are asking for my bank details to send the money. I have not responded.
Am I being difficult? I do not know this person (probably answering my own question) but hate putting out obstacles. I would never give out my bank details anyway but am now thinking of just saying they are no longer for sale or asking for a cheque again. They could be genuine or scammers.
WWYD?