It's a big birthday for DH this weekend. We live far away from a lot of our friends, who all live near each other. A few months ago I asked around about people coming to see us and nobody really could, but some arranged another time to come. My plan B was that we would head to their city for the weekend and have a big dinner together, but then DH had to go there for work anyway the weekend just gone, so I assumed he wouldn't want to go two weeks in a row. There was a show he wanted to see but it all sold out before I could get tickets. So I've panicked booked a weekend away somewhere really cool, just the two of us. Tonight he mentioned about heading to see our friends this weekend and I think that's actually what he wanted to do all along. I can't really cancel our weekend away now can I? I'd lose almost all the money. Should I just ride it out?! I feel that he's going to be disappointed, but at the same time he's a grown man who usually doesn't care about birthdays, so he should just get over it right?!