I'd usually put this in relationships, but doing it here for some quick opinions...
Five months ago my partner had a small flood in his house. I'd recently moved into a new rental with my ds. Do came to stay with me while his house dried out. He also rents but off a friend, it's £250 a month less than I pay because he still pays the same rent they set ten years ago.
Anyway it's taken months for the landlord to sort out the repairs with his in surfers and dp is still at my house. His house was never uninhabitable, he just liked it here and it kind of worked. DS is very fond of him.
However, he contributes nothing except the odd pint of milk. To be fair he cooks his own food which DS doesn't like, and often eats at work. But Obv all my other bills have gone up with another adult in the house. He works from (my) home a couple of days a week too. But he has had a cheap winter with a tiny rent and no bills. He earns over twice what I do, if I'd known he still be living here for free 5 months later and it wouldn't occur to him to contribute, then I'd never have let him stay. Aibu to thin he should offer something, or I should ask? I realise a lot of this is of my own making 