in thinking that dh should call me and not his mum when he needs to go to hospital

[misdee]

because i only found out when i rang him.

Well...yes I'd be peeved I think! He could have phoned you both maybe? Not just his mother....

well no that should be shouldn't it...your not being unreasonable...

For practical reasons possibly yes, his mother, for all other reasons - you.

maybe he doesnt want to worry you misdee

I'm thinking it's probably because you would have to find arrangements for the kids and what not so his mum would be more practical but I'd be ppreety peed off if dh put his mum down as first contact.

How can I put 2 'p's and 2 'e's and not 2 bloody 't's!!!

it was only to repeat a blood test, i had the kids in the car al;ready and was almost home. i pulled up to call him at the shops down thwe rd.

now i think his mum is in a mood because he always calls her. i said i could've taken him, its only local and would take 10mins max.

maybe he thinks you do enough already misdee