Lost track. Was Caroline ever identified? 🐧

[leapyearbaby]

Sorry to start yet another thread on stolen drive gate but did Birdlady ever discover who Caroline was??

Do u mean Cuntaline?

Lady across the street I think.

does this work

Yes thanks. Can't miss out on any of it. Too invested

But don't think she ever got to speak yo her or nicholarse

She lived across the street I think and op wasn't aware. I also suspect op had posts deleted as they were identifying, to clarify, I know exactly where she lives. Down to the street, It was the pay and display photo that did it. I used to live in the same town and now live about twenty mins away but still shop there regularly. I was very surprised when the photo was posted.

I was following the thread until the last bit where it stopped making sense when OP had her posts deleted.

Apparently something BIG happened but I have no idea what

Me neither Cup haven't had time to read through. I know what I'll be doing tomorrow.

Last bit I read we were waiting for Nicolarse to come round and explain himself?

I think the other car in the drive belonged to a carer from across the road and she had been parking there for years, even before OP moved in. OP told Nicks wife to remove the carers car off the drive immediately whereupon the carer parked on the road and put her blue badge on the windscreen so didn't need to park there at all. Or something like that.

Theres a third thread in aibu with all the missing info

What happened? I lost track after OP blocked in Caroline's car and was waiting for her to come...

Oh my bluntness. So there's you and two others on the same street all knowing precisely who and where.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/2824541-to-invite-the-Nicolarse-and-Buntline-crowd-to-this-thread

You can find some explanation from other posters on this thread, they saw the updates before they got deleted.

The biggest coincidence ever on mumsnet ever that so many people living on the same street happened to stumble upon the same thread.

Paul...shows how many mntters there are out there...(looks around own street)

OP loaded a photo that showed a full numberplate, and also a photo of Nicolarse's house, which was obviously all rather identifying. She asked for that to be taken down, but MN removed all the photos - including the one of the letter she had received

For all I know I do! But I never saw the pics. Nor have I seen, was it clingfilmed tree or something? In nicolarsarse's front garden.

I wish I could've seen that letter

Letter pretty much thanked ops dh for allowing the carer to keep parking on her drive

Caroline was actually Carolyn!

Oooooo bird. How'd you know. What happened?

Cuntoline worked for Nicolarse !

Lol I just checked the buntaline thread. It's gobsmackingly entitled.

Here you go-
I finally have an update to put Nicholarse and his parking shenanigans to bed smile
So he came round this afternoon finally.
He stood sideways to me so we couldnt make eye contact.
He started off the conversation yet again as "My carer said you asked me to come round?"
So I was polite but direct and told him he had absolute no right to use our driveway for his cars, carers car or Caroline's cars.
I showed him the damage to the copping stone that lifts off the wall pillar and has the corner missing.
We had the drive wall widened when we bought the house to enable us to get two cars on the drive by a local builder.
He offered to pay for its repair!!!!!
Does that mean he knows who hit it?
I then said who's is this other car you have given permission to leave here overnight.
"that's Carolyns car, she works part time in my office and parks here for four hours only"
I thought he said it was Caroline's on Tuesday, and she doesnt even live on my street!!!
Not an ounce of remorse just indignation as to why I would possibly be unhappy about it???
He even said "I have been looking after your house for you when your not here"
Then gets out his mobile phone and shows me pictures of my kitchen roof where a tile has come loose, as if we couldnt see it from our own windows.
So I started to get a bit stroppy as he just wasnt getting it at all and told him he would under no circumstances EVER park on my drive again,
your carer can park on the single yellow line or you can pay for permit.
He started stuttering and said
" Oh well yes I can possibly look into that."
But I did do him a great disservice because talking to him close up in the light he would appear to be late 50's early 60's and is still working full time.
I dont know what is wrong with his wife to have carers morning lunch and evening.
I have spoken to her to say hello to over the years and she is perfectly coherent and I saw her walking unaided to the car on Thursday.
I also told him we would be putting up a gate which we are now going to do.
Thank you to the poster up thread who recommended the CCTV that sends a picture to your phone, we will look into that.
For now the electric fence stays up.
Thank you all for your support.
My husband thinks I shouldn't have let it get to me but it did! And he stayed out the way as he thought it better coming from the LADY of the house!

Well done op and thanks for updating us. 🙂😋🙃🤗