Flatmates dp smokes weed in her room

[cassadee]

And I can smell it!

Aibu?!

Ask them to use air conditioning and vent it out of the window, it does tend to spread.

Or just smoke it outside/in his own house?!?

It stinks to high heaven. Throw a hissy fit until they open the window properly. Or better still do it somewhere else.

YANBU but you need to communicate with your flat mate

He doesn't pay rent, it's unacceptable to do this right? Not his house!!!

I've asked her to get him to do it outside

What did she say?

I messaged but no reply yet! It's unacceptable right?

You need to go and actually speak to your flat mate and no it's not acceptable

I used to let my pals smoke in the kitchen with the windows open, well before I had DS. I rented out my flat a few years ago on the basis the tenants never smoked in the flat. They were cool with it and I kind of made it a bigger deal as DS would come back to flat if need be (moved in with DP) Anyhow, they bailed. They smoked in my place. Whole place is honking. I have to replace every carpet and paint every wall. Super pissed off as they knew DS would come back. Twunts. So IMO I would never let anyone smoke in my place again. Honestly it isn't worth it. The smell clings to everything....

put sodium bicarb in ashtrays....my mates mum does that and she chain smokes cigs. The powder absorbs smells in the air.

See if it works.

That's so annoying neeps

Make a fuss now OP so you set a precedent of not putting up with it. If you don't like it, you shouldn't have to put up with it...you pay rent and he doesn't.

AFAIK it's illegal to permit drug consumption in your house. Can't he at least get a vaporizer?