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Freekah · 30/11/2016 22:51

My abusive husband moved out yesterday .

I have started numerous threads about the relationship under numerous different names over the years and I got amazing advice and help.

This place has given me the confidence and help to facilitate me leaving an abusive relationship and start a better life for me and my sons . I would not have done it on my own.

I will be forever greatful to this next of vipers.

Thank you.

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Freekah · 30/11/2016 22:53

Next ?
I meant nest clearly

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user1475253854 · 30/11/2016 23:00

Massive well done to you for leaving. Here's to your future! Wine

ShoesieQ · 30/11/2016 23:02

Brilliant news - v well done Freekah Proud of you Flowers

Freekah · 01/12/2016 00:23

Thanks

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likepeasandcarrots · 01/12/2016 00:28

Great news and all the best for the future. Onwards and upwards Flowers

Freekah · 01/12/2016 00:30

I am feeling a bit emotional when I think of the trauma of the past few years including police involvement etc.
I am delighted I have reached this point but am still ashamed that I was in an abusive relationship.

I have to say again that the support and advice I got here was invaluable

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likepeasandcarrots · 01/12/2016 01:27

Please don't feel ashamed, the shame should belong to your ex, not you.
You should feel proud you have gotten yourself out of that situation. You're a very brave person.

MrsTerryPratchett · 01/12/2016 03:11

There's no shame. Well, you shouldn't feel any. But do give yourself time to breathe, heal and do what you need to do.

I hope everything comes up Freekah.

OohhItsNotHoxton · 01/12/2016 05:40

Flowers Well done x

user1471950254 · 01/12/2016 06:03

Don't be ashamed be proud of your bravery in leaving!

Good luck in the future SmileWineCakeStar

LikeBigBotsAndICannotLie · 01/12/2016 06:08

Well done you, what a massive courageous step to have taken. I am pretty new to mumsnet, well lurk mostly so missed your posts, but good for you, I am so happy people here helped you so much Flowers

Freekah · 01/12/2016 06:22

Thank you .
I am looking forward to a Christmas without fear of abuse and a new start for me and my boys in 2017.

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MrsJamin · 01/12/2016 06:37

All the best for your new life in 2017, Freekah. Flowers

Freekah · 03/12/2016 23:50

Thank you

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