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To not know why butterflies are good

27 replies

BuonoEstente · 18/11/2016 10:36

Obviously they're lovely but I have pesky caterpillars and they're munching at my foxgloves (sob sob). Can someone share with me why they should be encouraged in my garden. They may pollinate come spring but that's fuck all use when all my plants are leafless.

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hellsbellsmelons · 18/11/2016 10:57

Butterflies and moths
I feckin' hate them.
There is nothing 'lovely' about them.
However, they are very useful, help pollination, part of the food chain, etc...
But I can't even look at pictures of them without my stomach churning and wanting to throw up (think I might need some therapy) Confused

Temporaryname137 · 18/11/2016 10:58

The problem with the caterpillars is that they could just be for vile hideous terrifying moths. In which case you should kill them with fire. But they could be beautiful butterflies, which make your garden look just as lovely as the foxgloves...

This will probably be the most utterly useless reply you get, I may as well give myself a Biscuit now!

Veggiesupremeextracheese · 18/11/2016 11:01

I absolutely despise butterflies and moths, I can't think of anything scarier!!

BuonoEstente · 18/11/2016 11:06

I'm quite partial to a moth, I had a beautiful gold one once which I later found dangling out of my cats mouth, he loves them too.

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PhilODox · 18/11/2016 11:13

I'm with hells. I even prefer wasps to butterflies.
They're just so disturbing the way they flutter .

Ifailed · 18/11/2016 11:24

You have to remember that butterflies and moths don't exist in isolation. They and their offspring provide food for other creatures and have evolved over millions of years to coexist in many ecosystems. As to munching on your foxgloves, I'm surprised they are even growing at this time of year, let alone have caterpillars on them - where are you?

BuonoEstente · 18/11/2016 11:30

I'm in the UK, I have a variety that you plant in March for flowering the next year and they keep their leaves over winter (what's left of them anyway)

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5OBalesofHay · 18/11/2016 11:33

YANBU. Hideous tongued little fuckers creep me out.

CruCru · 18/11/2016 11:37

Moths are great food for bats.

Ifailed · 18/11/2016 11:46

BuonoEstente
most foxgloves are biennial so you plant for flowering next year. I meant that usually the leaves die back in winter, new growth comes in the spring along with the flower stem. I doubt if the caterpillars are doing much harm.

hellsbellsmelons · 18/11/2016 11:46

I'm so glad I'm not alone in my completely irrational phobia here!
Everyone I know thinks I'm bonkers for this.

BuonoEstente · 18/11/2016 12:01

Thanks Ifailed, I didn't know that, leaves are still looking bushy and full but it'll stop me panicking when they die off (and has soothed my caterpillar rage). Very glad I posted now.

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Ifailed · 18/11/2016 12:33

"die off" is probably a bit extreme, but the plant basically goes to sleep and the leaves will start to look a bit ropey. Come spring, though, a whole new set will emerge, along with the flowers.

Beewhisperer · 18/11/2016 12:36

So glad I'm not the only one that doesn't like butterflies.
Fucking moths in track suits!

SatsukiKusakabe · 18/11/2016 12:37

I thought this was going to be about relationships, but actual butterflies Grin

I love them, but I also have a grudging respect for wasps and their late summer sugar madness.

PoptartPoptart · 18/11/2016 12:49

I was taken to an indoor butterfly and moth sanctuary when I was young. Bloody things fluttering everywhere, landing on me and flapping their wings. I cried so much I had to be taken out. Hated the bastards ever since. Give me a bee or wasp any day cos at least you can hear them coming!

KurriKurri · 18/11/2016 12:51

I feel compelled to come on and defend butterflies and moths. I love them (especially moths) they are just beautiful and fascinating, they don't hurt anyone, they don't sting or bite.

They have an amazing life cycle, - a caterpillar feeding itself up, turning into a pupa, then turning into a soup which gets reconstituted into a moth - that's beyond imagination it's so brilliant. They are true wonders of nature. Some are so sensitive that a male can detect a miniscule amount of female moth pheremone from miles away, and he will fly those miles to find her.

And they have a dreamy ethereal quality about them - beautiful yet fragile, drawn to the light even though it may take them to their doom. A long developing process for a short lived but incredible life - colourful, fluttering, swooping and dancing.

You are all mad - moths and butterflies are nature's finest hour.

(and that is the end of the party political broadcast on behalf of the Lepidoptera Party Grin)

Verytee · 18/11/2016 14:02

Butterfly farm=one of the most horrific experiences of my life.

HoopsBouquet · 18/11/2016 14:09

Fucking moths in tracksuits, I love it, I'm nicking that Grin

I had a lovely moth once, it was in a Tesco herb salad, I nearly bit it. The thought of half a moth on my plate is making me shudder, months later.

Tinkfromlovejoy · 18/11/2016 14:17

Fucking moths in track suits Grin

HoopsBouquet · 18/11/2016 14:22

KurriKurri I re-read your post, I'd missed the bit where you wrote 'they have a dreamy ethereal quality about them - beautiful yet fragile, drawn to the light' I think I might convert to Lepidopterism Grin

LuckyBitches · 18/11/2016 14:41

You can put the ball in their court - if you pick the caterpillars off and put them on another kind of plant, they refuse to eat it and die, apparently.

BuonoEstente · 18/11/2016 16:15

Oooo good plan

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BuonoEstente · 19/11/2016 19:51

I found a culprit today, I popped it on the bird feeder - no birds have been yet and it's wiggling and making me feel guilty.

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Hysterectical · 19/11/2016 20:16

I got attacked by a hawk moth once. Not once but for about an hour it kept swooping at me and hitting me and it was about the size of my hand. I finally trapped it and drove 20 miles away and threw the box out of the window. It was absolutely horrible, really demonic. ❤ moths in tracksuits 😀

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