My husband has an email friend that lives in the states that he met in a chat room when he was 15. About 5 years ago I saw they were emailing but he had stated to her 'he he cooled off messaging her until the coast was clear with me' Any now 5 years on he had left himself logged in and there were messages to the same girl. All contents just friendly and fine until..... he sent her two separate song lyric links and told her to listen to the songs and read the lyrics.
These songs were basically love songs about loving a woman and not being with them. I've asked him about it and he says it was just drunkard reminiscing. AIBU to still be hurt and should I tell him where to shove it?