bonfire night is one of my favourite things, always has been. When the kids were little, big, loud displays freaked my DS out so we always had a little display in the back garden with sausages inna bun. But now that DS is away at yooni and DD is off out doing her own thing, DH isn't interested in having any fireworks or sausages inna bun. or going to the big display in our town. this makes me sad and, i'm afraid, quite grumpy. AIBU?