Sorry this a long one but hang in there, I will get to the point! I was a smoker for years and quit 6 years ago, I am now pretty anti smoking. Dh promised he would quit by the time dd was born (now 5 yrs) he didn't but did cut down considerably and eventually started vaping. He still vapes and is incredibly careless with leaving his vape things around (the nicotine mix, flavours and the vapes themselves) I have emptied a shelf for him to use in a high cupboard so the children can't get them but he always leaves stuff around. I found my 2 yr old ds with a vape in his mouth and playing with bottles of the fluid before. I do get really angry about this as some of the bottles lying around contain nicotine and are therefore poisonous I have never found him with these bottles. My other thing is that every time I ask him to go outside he gradually works his way back to the back door and then the kitchen looks like a smoke machine has been in it (only when the kids have gone to bed) every time I bring this up it starts an argument. Aibu?