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To not understand why this man is not in jail

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Thefishewife · 02/11/2016 20:58

www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2016/11/02/german-court-rules-parents-of-15-year-old-girl-cannot-stop-her-h/

People often trot out Germany as the gold standard for liberal life well f this is what you get they can keep it

How can someone have sex with his 15 year old nice and everyone just shruggs and says oh well

How do Germany safe guard there children of uncles can sleep with there 14 year old nices even putting aside the age because it seems legal there though I thought that was about two 14 year old sleeping together rther than a grown man and child😕 He's her fucking

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Thefishewife · 02/11/2016 20:59

I am just 🙁🙁🙁😳 and he was a foster carer

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Thefishewife · 02/11/2016 21:16

Very sad

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Soubriquet · 02/11/2016 21:21

I don't like it. At all

But the age of consent is 14 in Germany. And there is such thing as familial sexual attraction. Usually between siblings or parent and child but it happens

It's not nice. It's not natural but the law says it's ok

Thefishewife · 02/11/2016 21:27

So how do they sort out who's been groomed and who's in love

I would imagine most 13/14 year old girls think there in love many of the girls who were groomed up north here thought they were in love no they were being bloody groomed

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Soubriquet · 02/11/2016 21:28

No idea. But in Germany, she's 15 and able to have a say in what she wants

Thefishewife · 02/11/2016 21:29

That is the whole point of grooming to make yu think your consenting when really your just being manipulated

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Soubriquet · 02/11/2016 21:30

I know that

But she was seen by therapist wasn't she? Her family had her committed

Surely any grooming flags would have shown themselves then

Thefishewife · 02/11/2016 21:30

She was 14 when he ran off to France with her and I would imagine many girls unless totally fucked up would make a move on there uncle 😳🙁

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Thefishewife · 02/11/2016 21:32

So in reailty it would have to been him making a Ive in her

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EveOnline2016 · 02/11/2016 21:56

It's her uncle by marriage, so unless I read it wrong they are not blood uncle and niece.

As much as I think it's totally sickening and discussing that a 47 year old would groom and have sex with a 14/15 year old, legally he hasn't done anything wrong in German law.

If I was the parents I would be campaigning to up the age of consent.

EveOnline2016 · 02/11/2016 21:58

Btw op I would imagine many girls unless totally fucked up I find that comment upsetting.

MH problems don't mean someone is fucked up.

EveOnline2016 · 02/11/2016 21:58

I would imagine many girls unless totally fucked up

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