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He was being goady and hasn't apologised

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Maverickismywingman · 29/10/2016 19:25

Well aware I sound like I've spat the dummy out the pram! But I'm still a bit miffed.

We had an argument. Which, admittedly, I started.

It was coming to an end and we'd reached a level of agreement. To which DP started making faces and stating things along the lines of "that'll teach you" "I'll do (what you've just done) tomorrow".

I start to tell him that it's sorted and he doesn't need to be a wind up merchant. "I'm trying to get you out your mood". I try to say that it's done and can he drop it.

He keeps going and it escalates to another argument. And, I kid you not, he tells me to go to the bedroom (like a child).
I leave our house altogether for an hour.

I haven't looked at him in the eye since. AIBU to expect an apology or acknowledgement that I had gone for a bit of time.

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Thattimeofyearagain · 29/10/2016 19:28

Yanbu, he sounds like a child Hmm

Arfarfanarf · 29/10/2016 19:30

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Maverickismywingman · 29/10/2016 19:34

Thanks arf. You're quite right. I'm just annoyed that he seems to think he has the power to dismiss me after being deliberately a twat goady.

But nothing will be solved with me sulking. I'm just not really in the mood to be his pal. Confused

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pipsqueak25 · 29/10/2016 19:34

two people need their heads banged together, be the bigger person and talk to him, but in an adult manner, and remind him he isn't your dad unless you have a weird relationship.

Maverickismywingman · 29/10/2016 19:39

You're right and you made me laugh pip.

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GratuitousSaxandViolins · 29/10/2016 20:30

You both sound like hard work TBH, is it always like this in your house?!

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