...to not really want them back?

[mamaduckbone]

Ds1 is on school residential this week. Dh is working away (he usually works from home so he's ALWAYS THERE) I'm on half term (I teach in a different county to where the Dc go to school). Ds2 is at school.

It's been so peaceful, and tidy, and calm. Ds2 and I are both quiet introverts, ds1 and Dh are big, loud, extroverts. There's always TV or music or shouting or talking happening.

I don't really want them to come back and spoil my peace. AIBU? Shall I change the locks?

Do it.
But in a few hours you'll miss them and have to change them back

Just move then they can't find u

Noooo! I don't want to move - I want my house without them in it.

(Love them both really, of course....)