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AIBU to worry about older women?

15 replies

Lavinia2013 · 28/08/2016 23:15

So, I don't know all the abbreviations..
Partner (soon to be husband) is 7yrs younger than me.
I've always been worried about him running off with younger women.. Although his ex of 16yrs was 5 yrs older, and ex of 5 years was 4 years older.
But this weekend alone his Mums neighbour kept telling me how handsome he is, his Auntie today repeatedly told
Me how sexy his beard is..
And tonight (hold onto your seats) my step mum tries to full on tongue snog him as he was trying to get her and my Dad into a cab... WTAF!!
AIBU to think that I should be more worried about older, than younger women hitting on him??
Yes yes I know it's all about OUR relationship... But as we were both married when we met, the insecurities are heightened.
Just totally bizarre to me that SO many older women fancy him....
Hmmmm........

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ExitPursuedBySpartacus · 28/08/2016 23:18
Hmm
ImperialBlether · 28/08/2016 23:19

I think it's the company you keep rather than older women per se. Your step mother trying to snog your partner - that's nothing to do with her age, but more to do with her personality and morals.

TwitTwatTwunt · 28/08/2016 23:21
Star
DiegeticMuch · 28/08/2016 23:21

Hmmmm indeed.

manyathingyouknow · 30/08/2016 13:22

His auntie commented on his sexy beard...oh dear.

amysmummy12345 · 30/08/2016 13:23

Ewwwwwww tongues?! Confused

GlitterGlassEye · 30/08/2016 13:24
Biscuit
DelicatePreciousThing1 · 30/08/2016 13:25

Erm... You are an older woman.

ElsaAintAsColdAsMe · 30/08/2016 13:26

Look on the bright side, at least you have a close family.

VladmirsPoutine · 30/08/2016 13:26

You all sound like the perfect candidates for a Jeremy Kyle show

missbishi · 30/08/2016 13:27

Reminds me of Harry Enfield's saucy grannies - oooh...young man!

RunnyRattata · 30/08/2016 13:29

Definitely watch out for us yes. We're all gagging for a last tango before the hormones leave forever and we'll do anything ANYTHING to hook a firm piece of manflesh before hobbling into our dotage. Gotta get one for the wankbank while we can.
Sadly needing the disclaimer 'lighthearted'

Yorkieheaven · 30/08/2016 13:31

Reminds me must check school stuff.

MaisieDotes · 30/08/2016 13:33

What difference would the age of the other woman make, if your partner was to be unfaithful?

Would it be more hurtful to you if it was an older woman? Or is it that you plan to keep him away from younger women and now you're thinking of extending this to older women too?

It doesn't sound like you trust him much.

RunnyRattata · 30/08/2016 13:33

Oh come on Yorkie! Draw the line somewhere!WinkGrin

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