Ok so I know actually punching him would be evil. But for fuck sake WHY does he insist on being dd (3) down because she has woken up rather than settling her IN HER ROOM
He works nights and the 2 nights a week he is home to help out and he undoes everything.
I have spent months working on getting her to sleep and stay in bed on her own and he manages to undo it all...I could cry!