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New to OD, do I chat or leave?

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SarahRhone · 10/07/2016 23:47

Potential date: I am around on xyz date if you are free.

Me: sounds good, I will be back from hol on xyz date, could get some food?

PD: ok great, have fun.

I feel like I should reply but friends are all saying to just leave it, is that rude??

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DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 10/07/2016 23:52

Leave it!

ThisIsStartingToBoreMe · 10/07/2016 23:53

He asked when you were free for a date
You told him when you were free
He didn't arrange the date

That's weird. Leave it.

Champagneformyrealfriends · 10/07/2016 23:54

Don't reply, let him/her come back to you.

SarahRhone · 11/07/2016 00:09

Ok, I'm paraphrasing here :)

What I said was "ok I'll be back from xyz date and around in the city from then..." (It's a city far away from me and the date is in two weeks). So I can see why he might be reluctant to give a date when it's so far forward.

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DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 11/07/2016 00:11

If he was interested he'd have suggested meeting up when you get back. Seriously,leave it.

SarahRhone · 11/07/2016 00:12

I'm pretty sure he's interested, he got in touch with me after a long while

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SarahRhone · 11/07/2016 00:13

Of course will leave it.

That wasn't his full message, some chat too

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FruitCockatiel · 11/07/2016 00:19

Leave it.

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