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To want to block?

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Hernameisnoelle59 · 08/07/2016 00:00

Chatting to a guy from tinder on whatsapp and sent him two (clothed) selfies. I think he must think I'm thick as now he's asking for an underwear one...

Hasn't sent me any of himself (not that I care but it's making me feel like some kind of sex toy)?

Should I ignore/block/what? Feels a bit disrespectful

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Hernameisnoelle59 · 08/07/2016 00:02

Why the fuck am I doing this Angry

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Hernameisnoelle59 · 08/07/2016 00:02

I'm also paranoid re what he can do with the selfies/conversation. I haven't said anything weird or OTT.

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girlintheriver · 08/07/2016 00:04

Seriously just block.
It sounds like he's just after a shag, just be wary of not giving too much personal info away in future

Aeroflotgirl · 08/07/2016 00:05

Block and forget. He's after a shag.

arethereanyleftatall · 08/07/2016 00:06

Isn't everyone on tinder just after a shag? I thought that was the point of tinder.

BeenThereTooSEL · 08/07/2016 00:06

Send him a dick pic and block him

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Hernameisnoelle59 · 08/07/2016 00:08

I can tell he just sees me as some airhead who exists solely for his sexual pleasure might be extrapolating lol Seriously though im annoyed. Should I say anything? I've been playing along and now feel fucking annoyed

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JackieAndHyde4eva · 08/07/2016 00:08

Of course you block. Dont give it a second's thought. Block, move on.

Hernameisnoelle59 · 08/07/2016 00:09

I want to have the last word Grin

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Hernameisnoelle59 · 08/07/2016 00:10

Oh and btw when I said feels disrespectful I do obviously mean towards me not him

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JackieAndHyde4eva · 08/07/2016 00:10

Should I say anything? I've been playing along and now feel fucking annoyed

I wouldnt bother. He'll yawn and go to try it with another woman. He probably is already getting the photos he wants from several women who think they're the only one he's chatting too. They collect the photos for wank fodder.

JackieAndHyde4eva · 08/07/2016 00:11

I want to have the last word

Youre going to have a hard time on tinder if you get this annoyed over it.

foreverandalways · 08/07/2016 00:12

Are you seriously having to ask the question? COMMON SENSE !!!!!

Hernameisnoelle59 · 08/07/2016 00:13

Been on tinder for ages, this is the first selfie whatsapp chat I've had though

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BeenThereTooSEL · 08/07/2016 00:15

Jackie I'm laughing at wankfodder

Littlefluffyclouds81 · 08/07/2016 00:18

I think you should send him a pic of you in your underwear. Do you have a greying bra and some knickers usually reserved for periods? They'd be perfect. Make sure your head is cropped out, and put a sock or suchlike in your knickers so there's a very noticeable bulge.

When he is stunned into silence, keep pestering him innocently about whether or not he likes your picture.

DamsonGinIsMyThing · 08/07/2016 00:21

I'm on plenty of fish.
The first mention of anything sexual and I block them.
Fair enough if we meet up and I wanna ride you like an Australian surfer rides a wave, but not just in general online chit chat.

JackieAndHyde4eva · 08/07/2016 00:22

Grin littlefluffy ! Yes do that OP!

beenthere Grin is that not a common term? I dont even know where I first heard it. Probably Mn!

BengalCatMum · 08/07/2016 00:35

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