It was my DH birthday a little while ago and I booked him a weekend away trip for 2. The trip is to do with he's hobby and for me very expensive and I have had to cut back a lot to afford it. He was absolutely thrilled with it and invited he's friend to go with him. This friend is very flakey and I did question at the time was he the best person to take but I was ignored.
A few days before and the friend has dropped out! No one else can make it at short notice and related booking will cost £££ more. He was extremely disappointed so I arranged childcare and time off work to go with him and he has chosen to cancel instead meaning I lose my 20% deposit. Honestly when I think what I could have done with that money I get more and more annoyed. Especially when he told me to book somewhere else instead later in the year.
AIBU to refuse to rebook and continue to be annoyed?