First time posting here..here goes! My sister & I live 20 minutes from each other and have kids the same age. My issue is that she only ever wants to meet on weekdays! I find this very annoying as I work full time..just spoke to her there & she asked if I had any day off this week. I don't, occasionally when I have a day off I do meet her but more often than not when I have a precious day off I try to run errands or spend time one to one with my kids. Today I suggested the weekend but again got blown off. Her husband is quite a dominant character so maybe it is to do with him. But we all get along fine (I.e me, my husband, sister & bil). Anyway AIBU or should I be more understanding? Whenever my husband is away at a weekend (travels a but for work) I feel I can never meet up with her at the weekend as I would feel like I'm intruding on her weekend,which is quite sad for sisters really! As a consequence I am much closer with my sil who is much more open to both families getting together. Thoughts?