To wonder whether this means anything

[BrigittaBrogotta]

Went away for the weekend with friend to see her (male) cousin at college (he is like a brother to her, they have grown up together). We spent a lot of time with cousin's group of friends. I know how childish this sounds, but all cousin's Young hot close friends have now added dfriend on FB but not me I thought we got on well? Aibu to think that they are doing this because they, well, fancy her?

One of them has also found increasingly spurious reasons to message. I'm a bit jealous in all honesty Of course I would never say this IRL but it has reminded me of the inner working of the horny 22 y.o. boy's mind

What is your AIBU?

I'm not sure I understand

Oh sorry. I understand iabu by even posing this question. But just idly wondering whether had you been in my situation you would feel a bit put out by lack of FB requests?!

A bit of me thinks, well, they are dcousin's best friends, their paths will cross in future etc etc. But a tiny bit of me feels quite left out too urgh

Brigitta, no you're not BU. They've added her because she's their friend's cousin and quite likely because they fancy her.

Seriously, find something real to worry about

Are you sure she didn't add them?

My procrastinating knows no bounds ....

Ok thought so! Newly single and low about it! Off to find a life

No I'm pretty sure they added her. A couple of them have met her a few times before too.

I'd be horrified if I got friend requests from a bunch of randoms I've only just met irrespective of how 'hot' they were!

I'm sure they added her because they've met a few times and are friends with her cousin.

If she's very attractive then yes, they probably fancy her.