to cancel on.......boyfriend/SO tonight?

[LillyVonSchtupp]

We both have DC so have limited time together, one night a week and then every other weekend.

My DS (21 months) has been poorly all week and has been unbelievably clingy. I am just shattered.

I just want to slob on the sofa with a film and really enjoy the peace and quiet. Alone.

AIBU to cancel?

Yanbu. And he is a major douchebag if he is funny about it.

Yanbu. He has kids. Will surely understand?

He's not a douchebag but there are a few minor things about him that are (probably irrationally) annoying me at the minute (abject indecision and a touch of low level stinginess).

I'm a loner at heart and prefer the company of the dog to 99% of humans .

No probs, as far as I can see, but ring him now to do it/explain otherwise, text him to cancel and ask him to ring you ?