I am more than happy to be told IABU about this.
I left my work around 2 weeks ago bit for a number of reasons my leaving lunch is being held tomorrow. I had to pop into the office about 10 days ago and was told the arrangements - where and when.
I sort of thought someone in the office might have sent me a ‘see you tomorrow’ sort of message but i have heard nothing. I am part of a group chat where messages like this are routinely sent so it would be easy to do.
The reason i think IA maybe BU is because i could send a message saying ‘all okay for tomorrow?” but the job i left is one where it is possible everyone is having a hideously stressy , busy Friday and are all stuck doing jobs and just haven’t had time to even think about tomorrow. If i send a message i feel i am rubbing their noses in the fact i am having a relaxed unstressed Friday.
Do i send a message? Should i expect a message? Do i just turn up at the arranged place tomorrow and hope people are there?