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to be asked whether I have embraced the MILF factor

20 replies

Foogy · 11/05/2016 17:23

A man I was chatting to on online dating asked me this last night.
I quite liked him before!
What was he thinking?

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silverpenny · 11/05/2016 17:25

Is he from the inbetweeners or something? For an adult bloke to use term is vile

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Foogy · 11/05/2016 20:26

Me late 30's, him early 30's.

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RosieandJim89 · 11/05/2016 20:27

Urgh! I hate that term.

AnyFucker · 11/05/2016 20:28

Are you still talking to him ?

Lovemusic33 · 11/05/2016 20:32

I had this a few times whilst dabbling with online dating, I found it very cringeworthy.

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Foogy · 13/05/2016 13:08

No I haven't spoken to him again. But now I'm wondering if this is what other men think of me on there too? Confused

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StableButDeluded · 13/05/2016 13:58

'Embraced the MILF factor'??
What does it mean? I know what a MILF is, but don't understand this...is it asking you if you think you are a MILF??
I dabble with OLD and I detest middle-aged men using the word MILF almost as much as I hate them calling me 'hun' or 'babe'. It's all so juvenile.

BestZebbie · 13/05/2016 14:01

Message back "no, I'm not trying to pull my son's/daughter's friends, I'd prefer someone my own age" - I was under the impression that a MILF is an object of attraction to the generation below, as opposed to a yummy mummy who is more attractive to her peers.

LadyAntonella · 13/05/2016 14:02

Yuck

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Foogy · 13/05/2016 18:41

But I'm 37, he's 33, not a massive age difference to me but maybe he saw me as an 'older woman'!!

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Foogy · 13/05/2016 18:42

Yes Stable I I'm not too sure the meaning of his question either!

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RosaRosaRose · 13/05/2016 19:48

Bin. Him.
Early 30's? Sounds like a fool.
Job done.

JustLostTheGame · 13/05/2016 19:50

What does it mean? Was he asking if you sleep with younger men?

Crispbutty · 13/05/2016 19:50

he sounds like hes 13 not 33!

JustLostTheGame · 13/05/2016 19:50

Are you a mum?

RosaRosaRose · 13/05/2016 19:52

And the other thing is, no, sure there are few men thinking that about you. Many are more adult.

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Foogy · 13/05/2016 20:04

Yes Just, I am a mum and I'd put this on my status as I kept getting guys telling me they were looking to settle down and have children! I don't want any more! But I feel really young, and had never thought that I would be thought of as a MILF Shock, or that someone would think it's acceptable to say that to a woman during a normal conversation!

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JustLostTheGame · 13/05/2016 20:11

Well its a good way to strike him off your list.

Birdsgottafly · 13/05/2016 20:16

Steer clear, he's asking if you are up for providing the 'Older Woman' experience.

You'll get all sorts of cranks, when you're OLD.

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Foogy · 13/05/2016 20:20

Yep, I've filtered him out! 'Older woman experience' Grin

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