I know it's not really AIBU but I put this here for traction
I had fairly major abdominal surgery last Tuesday with an incision somewhat longer than say a caesarian scar.
I was expecting stitches but was horrified to discover than they've used staples instead. I have to return to hospital tomorrow for the bleeders taken out (30 in total I counted when they changed the dressing) and I am absolutely petrified.
Many many years ago I had a really bad experience having some removed, it was so excruciatingly painful. Now I am far from being a wuss, normally they can do whatever they want but this one makes me want to throw up. so has anyone got any recommendations on any way I can make it less painful this time?
I guess I really just want some positive experiences