Dh works away during the week and usually travels back home. It's about a 3 hour drive, so a but of a trek. He's been doing this for about 18 months now. It has been ok, but lately I have found it pretty tough. The job has become a bit more pressured for him lately as he has to work to deadlines. (I work too) I call him most days, but it would be nice if he did sometimes. I go up to him at least once a month sometimes more or he comes home if he can. My moan us that I took dd with me this weekend along with her new boyfriend. I spent a lot of time on my own in the Saturday as he worked and I wanted dd to have nice time. Anyway when we got back in the evening he just wanted to sit and watch rugby. When I complained he said it is only on twice a year. I then went to bed as I did not want to get into a row when dd's boyfriend was there. Is this selfish or aimbu?