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To think car seats until 12 is a bit OTT?

250 replies

ConvenientTruth · 24/01/2016 18:51

I just looked up the actual law on car seats. Here it is: www.gov.uk/child-car-seats-the-rules/using-a-child-car-seat-or-booster-seat

Apparently children have to use car seats until the age of 12.

Am I alone in thinking this is a bit ridiculous? Parents of 11.5 year olds, do you all truly honestly still use a car seat?

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Waffles80 · 24/01/2016 18:54

Yeah, attempting to make cars safer for children is totally OTT.

Hmm
Noodledoodledoo · 24/01/2016 18:55

It's 12 or 135cm - so guess if they are taller than this its not necessary - if they are shorter then they need something. Obviously been done based on height in safety tests and I would imagine majority of 12 year olds will be this tall.

This web page backs it up and looks like most would be out of them by 9 years old.

Howdoesironmanwee · 24/01/2016 18:55

No, I don't think it's ridiculous, it's 12 or 135cm tall, whichever comes first. It's based on safety testing to do it size and neck strength. How hard is it to comply with?
Why wouldn't you want your child to be as safe as possible?

Noodledoodledoo · 24/01/2016 18:55

www.onaverage.co.uk/body-averages/average-child-height

ShadyMyLady · 24/01/2016 18:55

My DD is 11yo, she's 138cm exactly and hasn't been on a booster for about 6 months. So no, she doesn't.

Hulababy · 24/01/2016 18:55

Its not for all 12 year olds.

It is 135cm OR age 12.

And DD did stay in a car seat until she was 135cm, and for longer journeys it was always a high backed booster. She was a fair bit younger than 12 however.

Birdsgottafly · 24/01/2016 18:55

They're not advocating a Car Seat, but a booster seat.

The seat belt not fitting correctly can cause bad injuries and strangulation.

twinkletoedelephant · 24/01/2016 18:56

135cm or 12

Dd is 9 nearly 10 and is 145cm and is one of the smallest in her class. (She scraped through the height restrictions at Thorpe park :)
I don't know any parents who keep yjrm on a cat seat until 11 just 135cm.

Though I might make dt2 wait until dt1 is the correct height he is already 12cm taller than his 'big' brother :-)

ShadyMyLady · 24/01/2016 18:56

But the only reason she doesn't is because the is taller than the 135cm she needs to be! Otherwise yes, she would be on one until the law states.

CountryRoadTakeMeHome · 24/01/2016 18:57

Yes but not many nearly 12 year olds will be shorter than 135cm. My DS reached this height at 8.

Goingtobeawesome · 24/01/2016 18:57

I had dc1 in a high backed booster until he was 12. Looking back he could have come out of it sooner as it looked a bit tight but he never moaned. Dc2 and 3 were out sooner as were tall enough (as was dc1) and I realised I'd been a bit pfb with dc1.

AppleSetsSail · 24/01/2016 18:57

Completely OTT. My kids have been out of carseats since they were probably 7/8 years old or thereabouts.

MrsBobDylan · 24/01/2016 18:59

I'm all for anything which helps people avoid injury/death in a car crash.

Adeleslostbeehive · 24/01/2016 18:59

For me, the idea of a 12 year old
In a car seat, something I associate with young children, is quite... Not sure of the word. Embarrassing? I suppose I would feel underdeveloped at 12 needing a car seat. It would be awful on a journey with school friends to be the only one in one Blush
So in that sense, yanbu. But I am
In my 30s, I'm sure When our children are older they'll think we were awful for not having child seats to adulthood or whatever they'll be doing then

AnnaMarlowe · 24/01/2016 18:59

My 8 year olds are taller than 135cm, I would imagine that the majority of 12 year olds wouldn't need a seat long before their birthday.

OvO · 24/01/2016 19:00

My 11 year old is still in a high backed booster. It's much more comfy as well as safer. Why wouldn't you keep using something that was safer?

Artandco · 24/01/2016 19:01

I don't think it's ott. Ds1 is just turning 6, he is 123cm. I wouldn't feel happy with him out of one now, he was rear facing in a full 5 point harness until a year ago. He is now in a regular high back booster and I imagine he will fit another 4/5 years at least even if tall.

GlacindaTheTroll · 24/01/2016 19:01

Age 12 or 135 cms, whichever comes first.

A girl on the 50th centile would reach 135 cms a bit before her 10th birthday.

But even those who are very short do not have to stay in child seats once at secondary school (a pragmatic interpretation of the age limit).

LBOCS2 · 24/01/2016 19:01

DSS is almost 135cm and he's 8.6. It's a safety, not an age thing.

Artandco · 24/01/2016 19:03

Mine use the Cybex solution seat. At 6 it's on the smallest adjusting height and adjusts both up and out as they grow.

It's for safety. Survey anyone would opt for a safer option if it's available

dementedpixie · 24/01/2016 19:04

Ds is 9 and doesn't use a seat now as he is over the height limit

Savagebeauty · 24/01/2016 19:05

Is this a new thing?
Mine were out of car seats by about 9.

dementedpixie · 24/01/2016 19:06

It's not that new. It's age 12 or 135cm

Howdoesironmanwee · 24/01/2016 19:07

artandco not true re safety would be chosen if available.
I was openly ridiculed and called cruel for keeping dcs rear facing until 4.

sweetvparsley · 24/01/2016 19:07

Can anybody help me find any research about the number of children who have been helped since this legislation was brought in (about 10-11 years ago)?