To be thinking of someone else at Xmas

[Underwood15]

Me too! You're not alone.

We probably are being slightly unreasonable...

I'm thinking of someone who's with someone else

What?

You are being slightly unreasonable but I understand.

Me too. IABVU. But, I'm hoping it will wear off.

" and if you can't be with the one you love, honey, love the one you're with, love the one you're with " ( Not helpful at all / misses point )

Go for it! Think your thoughts!

Thanks all. I know I'm being VVU. Why must we all be discontented and miserable

What?

What are so many people saying 'what?' about [santa]

And merry Xmas

Because I don't understand the OP. I may need to go to bed but I don't know what she means!

I don't think it can be called 'unreasonablee'. Pointless maybe. I'm also thinking of someone who is with someone else.
Try to have a happy day even so x

Someone else other than who? Yourself? Santa? Jesus? Your husband? Your family?
I can't make an aibu call without context and background.

I'm assuming the op is thinking about someone who isn't their husband/ wife/ partner but I did initially wonder if they meant someone less fortunate.

Yanbu, Christmas is the time to be thinking of others.

I'm doing the same.
But they are my partner, circumstances keep me living with my husband (seperated) and they live overseas.
I miss them very much today. Well everyday.

Thinking of someone who is with someone else it's a sad sad predicament. But I hope you're all having a lovely Xmas day whether missing someone or not

are we talking affairs,thats what im thinking

Oh no, they don't know. At least I think they don't..

not at all.....i'm doing it too!