My baby is nearly a year old. When I went to the birthing centre to have her te first midwife was very hostile, she barely spoke to me and when she did she was very rude.
When she checked me to see how many cams I was dislocated she was very very rough, to the point I put my hand down to try and stops too her and said "stop your really hurting me" she didn't stop and d said I'm "nearly done"
It was agony I felt like she was punching me. It wasn't my irate birth, when I had my son I was checked several times and not once did it hurt.
When I had my daughter is gotten my do to check me and he didn't hurt me and he's not a professional.
Would I be unreasonable to file a complaint this far down the line? I've been pondering it for months now and I'm still cross and upset that it had happened.
I asked her to stop and she didn't even though I'd made it clear she was hurting me. Looking back I wish id made a complaint earlier