Me and Exh have been apart for 6 1/2 years...divorced for almost five.We have one DD 7yo.
We have both moved on and are both in happy relationships I'm engaged with another DD4yo to my fiance and my ex is married with a DS 2YO and another on the way....We have a fairly good relationship and are constantly in contact for DD's sake as he and his family normally stay in Africa (He and his wife are both from africa originally) and other than skype or tango he only see's DD once a year due to work or other commitments.
However he came to the UK a few weeks ago to take DD to visit family in London with his wife and son and had her for a week then brought her back to me in scotland...he stayed with a friend so he could spend a few more days with DD up here whilst his wife stayed down south with other family, What has annoyed me and sorry it took so long to get to this point...is that on his last day in Scotland whilst spending time with DD he told me that his wife would be staying in the UK until she gave birth to their second child and that because of this he would no longer be paying me maintenance for DD as he had to fund his wife to stay in the UK until she gave birth and until sge was able to move back to Africa!! she's due end of September...AIBU to expect that even though i understand he has other family commitments he should still at least be trying to provide for his first born? (which isn't a lot he only pays 60 a month)? He runs two businesses where he stays but claims that he doesn't make enough to pay for his wife and son down south and me towards the upkeep of our child. Opinions would be appreciated if i'm being unreasonable i would happily apologise and back down!!