Long time lurker, but this is my first post, please be gentle.
DH and I have agreed the following statement and need the wisdom of MN to settle our disagreement...
I nearly choked with shock and outrage on my delicious homemade wild boar ragu and pasta, because my DH quipped "that will put another couple of layers on your hips"! Of course I should be very sensitive about my weight right now, since having our first DD in Jan. AIBU?
A bit of background, since DD arrived DH cooks for me 5 or so times a week (before then we never bothered as both of us worked late). He is very good and displays no small amount of Italian flair in the kitchen. Regular culinary pleasures come with the cost of calorie accumulation, however. I turned to DH tonight and said he must no longer cook his own recipes; I said I wanted to lose weight and so had signed us up to Gousto (healthy supper ingredients delivered to your door). Unfortunately we missed next week's deadline, and so DH will have to cook from his menu for another week. This is when he said that I'll have to put off my plans for a diet for another week, since he struggles to hold back that extra dash of olive oil and other calorie bombs (albeit which make dishes delicious). It is then he nodded to tonight's pasta supper he had prepared and said "that will put another couple of layers on your hips"...
AIBU to be a bit miffed at this?