Intensely irritating situation today, involving family suggesting we spend large sums of money on a joint enterprise, that we can't afford due to some very unfortunate personal circumstances (we appear well off, have good incomes, but are expecting significant expenses/drop in income over the next few months due to health issues), and then getting pissed off when we said no and explained why (the bleeding obvious). I don't feel I can share the full story as they know I am on MN and would definitely recognise the story and circumstances, and I don't want the fall out.....has anyone else been caught out? What happened?