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18 replies

Rosesarelovely · 30/04/2015 14:36

Hello mners :) I seem to have a bit of a problem, there is a remote access trojan on my pc (that will be sorted out by technician soon) and there are people on fb using pictures of plants that i took as their banner pics, I must add that I never actually published these pictures online. Anyways, it seems that I am being stalked online. I have moved from one property, after all of my personal details were accessed by the people that did this, they were making memes on fb with my passwords on and other personal information.

These people are openly discussing murdering somebody for being a rat. What that basically means is that they want to kill someone for calling the police on them, I think its me they are talking about. I didn't think this until other mums at the school my children have just started at began mentioning mummies getting shot and being murdered, my initial thoughts were why mention things like that in front of children? its awful. They mentioned being nervous at the bus stop and other things, its so unnerving and its making me ill.

I contacted the Police and they gave advice along the lines of take your pc to an IT specialist for a sweep, I rang them to express my concerns at peoples veiled threats to kill me and they wont do anything. I was advised to stay off facebook, fair enough, plenty of other stuff to do at home anyway and to call 101 if I heard anything along those lines again. Don't know what else to do about this. Suggestions would be apreciated. TIA

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ImNameyChangey · 30/04/2015 19:59

it sounds like you need to speak to the doctor about all this. As soon as possible. Do you have a partner?

CheeseandPickledOnion · 30/04/2015 20:03

So delete Facebook, wipe your PC etc.

Do you have anyone supporting you right now? In the nicest and most concerned way, it sounds like you may need some support.

Why do you think you are being stalked? Why are people stealing your pictures?

HattyMonkey · 30/04/2015 20:04

Has there really been a spate of Mummy's being murdered in your area? Also if you have never published your photos online it is very doubtful they could be shared. Have you seen a doctor about your concerns at all? If you don't circulate in the type of people who would want a "rat" dead then I would gently suggest you need some help and quickly.

BMW6 · 30/04/2015 20:11

OP - please ring someone or GP for real life support now, get off facebook. I have to say that what you are fearing may not be a real threat- for instance the pics online that have been stolen - if you didn't put them online, then they cannot be your pics.

Chancewouldbefinething · 30/04/2015 20:15

Hey Roses are lovely, without sounding judgemental or alarmist...do you think this is actually happening or could you be in a mental health breakdown and reading too much into things? I mean this in the best way..
What you are describing is very alarming. It's also an unlikely scenario.
I'm not disbelieving you. But I echo the previous poster's advice to go and see your gp to discuss these concerns.
Sending strength and understanding your way

NurseRoscoe · 30/04/2015 20:16

This post is slightly confusing and please don't take offence to this but I have suffered from paranoia and mild hallucinations in the past, I have anxiety and it does sound like you need some help, as other posters have suggested. It sounds very scary so please don't be afraid to speak to your GP, they are really understanding.

Oswin · 30/04/2015 20:20

Op please please see a doctor. I hope you are ok.

alwaysstaytoolong · 30/04/2015 20:33

I'm a mental health professional. Please make an appointment with your GP and relate all your concerns.

TestingTestingWonTooFree · 30/04/2015 20:37

Ditto. Your GP will help you work out a plan.

CrispyFern · 30/04/2015 20:39

Do you have a friend or relative you trust?
Maybe ask if they could take you to see the doctor, if it seems too hard to do it alone.

I have had hallucinations before and what you are writing reminds me a lot of that time. Honestly, being totally and completely honest with the GP is the best thing you can do now. Good luck.

msgrinch · 30/04/2015 21:27

op, you need to see your doctor asap. I'm saying this in the kindest way. The police aren't the ones to go to, if your pictures weren't published ever etc then none of those memes are related to you. You need to get some help, urgently. I hope you take the advice on here. You will get better. Thanks Thanks

CrapBag · 30/04/2015 22:47

Just agreeing with everyone else OP. There are people who can help you. Please see your GP very soon. Flowers

ToadsJustFellFromTheSky · 30/04/2015 23:26

I'll be honest, I don't actually understand your post at all OP. I'm going to echo what everyone else is saying though - see your GP.

Chancewouldbefinething · 01/05/2015 09:04

Hey OP,
How are you? How are you feeling about the replies?

Chancewouldbefinething · 01/05/2015 09:04
Flowers
Chancewouldbefinething · 01/05/2015 21:30

Hoping you can find the strength to follow the advice given

crymeariverwoo · 02/05/2015 14:08

hi op how are you this morning? sending lots of love

ImNameyChangey · 02/05/2015 15:49

Hey there Roses have you been ok today? Bit rainy...hope you've had a nice day though.xxx

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