Abusive stepfather

9 replies

spudholes · 10/04/2015 10:43

Been in my life since I was 2 (I'm 25 now), verbally abusive, alcoholic, violent and abusive to my mother and threatened to punch me the other day.

I decided to use his toothbrush to clean those stubborn brown stains in the toilet. AIBU?

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ladyrosy · 10/04/2015 10:47

Nope, YANBU.

You may want to consider other ways of keeping your sanity though. Seems unfair that you'll have to keep cleaning the loo.

PlummyBrummy · 10/04/2015 13:31

Haha, brilliant! May I also suggest turning the volume on his speakers to max so he deafens himself with his own music/tv - amongst other small, snatched pleasures from the horrible f*cker!

Icimoi · 10/04/2015 13:34

Record him when he is threatening you then report him to the police.

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spudholes · 10/04/2015 16:31

Yeah the next one I'm going to do is hide an alarm clock in his room and set it for silly o clock!

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lemonyone · 10/04/2015 16:34

No. Don't do that. (But I can see why it is tempting!)

I have been in your exact situation OP.
Can I ask, is there anyway you could stop seeing him?

lemonyone · 10/04/2015 16:35

Can I just check, is this lighthearted, or are you wanting advice? I don't want to bring the thread down at all.

AlwaysDancing1234 · 10/04/2015 16:38

Fabulous
However I do think you need to deal with his crimes permanently by reporting him to police if you are able? If not then I hope you and your mum are getting the appropriate support

DowntownFunk · 10/04/2015 16:44

Take a photo of you doing it. Keep it until you and your mum are free and safe from him then send it.

Revenge is useless unless they find out.

crazypuglady · 10/04/2015 21:04

I hope you didn't need a wee while cleaning the toilet.......

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