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AIBU?

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To find this odd?

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WineAndChocolateyummy · 24/03/2015 12:27

At school drop off this morning a parent said to their reception child, "I love you like a fat kid loves cake".

Didn't think anything of it at time but as day gone on, it has stuck in my head and can't help but think it's odd and potentially damaging.

  1. I don't want to get fat, so does that mean if I don't eat cake, parent won't love me any more.
  2. it doesn't matter if I eat cake and get fat as that's how much parent loves me. (Obv parent would still love child, but is that what they want them thinking).

Plus whatever else it may make other children think.

Finally, surely love how much you love your child shouldn't be quantifiable.

Of course, at this point said child is thinking none of these things other than parent loves them.

I am totally over thinking this aren't I. Hmm

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MNpostingbot · 24/03/2015 15:49

"
If I was with some other chick and someone happened to see
And when you asked me about it I said it wasn't me
Would you believe me or up and leave me?
How deep is our bond if that's all it takes for you to be gone?
We only humans, girl, we make mistakes
To make it up, I'll do whatever it takes
I love you like a fat kid love cake
You know my style, I say anything to make you smile"

As Fiddy (50 cent for those of you not down with the kids) lyrics go it's pretty tame. Certainly better than "I'm into having sex ain't into making love, you come give me a hug you'll end up getting rutt / rubbed"

That verses at the top also reads like a poetic AIBU, I'm imagining the response already "he's lying, of course something happened, LTB, he's a vile vile man, red flag"

WineAndChocolateyummy · 24/03/2015 17:46

Oh LTB indeed. Defo never heard those lyrics before. Still think it an odd thing to say in public on leaving child at school but am no longer worried about other stuff. It's in context now ?? just like Guess how much I love you story.

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