Been lurking a while but this is my first post (be kind). Been with my oh for nearly 9 years, two kids (8 and 4)..he has a very high sex drive and we'd be at it 3 times a day if it was up to him, I also suffer with depression and couldn't give two shits about sex....so AIBU to tell him to just use his hand and leave me alone, or should I just do it to keep him quiet ( I love him dearly and wish I didn't feel like this, but I do) 