A dear friend is going through a divorce. It turned out her entire marriage was a sham, built on lies and incredible deceit. It's her story, not mine, so I won't share the details. But I am pretty sure, after reading MN, that her STBXH is a typical borderline (or proper) narcissist.
I promised to scrawl through MN to dig out titles of books she can read to help her understand what she's dealing with and to get her through the lies and emotional blackmail as her divorce proceeds. AIBU to be lazy and ask you to recommend titles, because I've had zero sleep with a crying baby all last night, and can't face doing the task, but don't want to let down my friend.