SIL, who is ALWAYS massively late was due at 7.
Currently I am wearing an air cast for a ruptured Achilles' tendon, I accept I am bad tempered, worn out and frustrated.
However, she is delivering my birthday present (birthday was in January) so I should be grateful.
OH needs to help me bath, I need to get into dry bath, take off boot, run water, have bath, empty bath, put on boot, get out of bath. OH needs to help with taking boot, giving back boot, passing towels and helping out of bath etc.
He has to be up at 3 tomorrow and was up at 3 today, he is doing everything, he's tired.
We explained all this to SIL, she said she would come at 7, she's still not here.
If she does not turn up after 8, am I justified to go have my bath and let DH, say a quick hello, sorry can't spend long, Charlie is in bath and will then be going to bed, I need to go to bed shortly and you once again are at least an hour late (assuming they turn up at 8)
Or does this just make me an ungrateful moaner.
Honestly, she works par time,, BIL retired, the drive is around 30 mins, so they could have set off in plenty of time.