So I am a sahm with 3 dds 9, 5 and 2. Ihad to have a test involving sedation during October half term. The literature said I shouldn't be responsible for small dc for 24 hours. Dh agreed to work at home to take and collect me but couldn't spare annual leave. As a result I didn't get a rest bar when dd3 napped. I was disappointed about this but actually I was fine afterwards. The following month he managed to take annual leave to do a stag day. Ok a one off and it was a good friend. Cue to today and Dfil had to have a day case procedure so understably dh said he would drop off and stay over as fil couldn't be alone. I assumed he would be able to work remotely from fils home but I just found out that he took annual leave. Obviously don't want to make a fuss as he may have been unable to work remotely from fils home and fil has has had lots of treatment. Aibu to feel a little unsupported though and feel like others come before me.