I've name changed, and changed a few details to avoid outing myself, but nothing important. Also just to say that I'm not in epic hulk rage mode or anything, just feeling irritated about this.
Quick background: I live in Spain with my partner. I'm originally from the UK, and although I have a few friends here, our social live mainly revolves around my DP's friends. I speak acceptable (but not amazing) Spanish, but very shoddy Catalan. Basically I'm always on a back foot language wise as I'm the only foreigner.
I barely see my DP during the week as he works long hours, gets home late and we go to bed early. Normally on a friday or a saturday we will have a very low key "date night" where we will eat out, have some wine and a laugh and then maybe watch a film at home. Sunday is early night day due to work on monday. Neither of us are social butterflies, but we do socialise both together and separately and consider this normal.
Anyway, so tonight DP calls and says some of his male friends are going out and have invited us, he isn't sure if he wants to go, and I say I'm not overly keen, especially since we are seeing the exact same people with their partners tomorrow. DP gets home early (by his standards) and says he still isn't sure. I tell him my preference is to spend the evening together since we are seeing them tomorrow all evening, and he is spending the entire weekend (thursday-monday) with the exact same guys next weekend anyway (for a stag do). H
We talk about other stuff, start relaxing, and end up having sex (sorry tmi). About five minutes afterwards, DP gets dressed and calls his mates. I assume to say we are hanging out here instead. Instead, he arranges to meet them and tells me he's heading out do I want to come. I only know three of the people there and don't have much in common with them, not to mention I am fucking starving and want to eat - not go out drinking. I say no for those reasons. He looks a bit guilty but skips off.
Basically it feels like he came home, got his rocks off, and has now buggered off with his mates, who, I stress again - we are seeing tomorrow ANYWAY.
Am I right to be a bit pissed off at this?