Theres is a bullying issue, which I am due to have a meeting with , the head about. In DS book draw I pick up a letter that I had not received dating mid November and then another one following saying he had been seen, baring in mind it hadnt been able to give my permission ,...and in top of that a letter regarding lateness in the morning from about a month ago, someone used to take him for me in the morning as we lived for a while far from school, its apparently been sent to the education welfare officer , 
and yet ive only heard about it now. , feel like ive been hit by a tonne of bricks what can i do?